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Fences
I recently walked the same path St. Francis de Sales once took. As I stood, I watched a cow straining to reach the grass just beyond the fence, while ignoring the field around her. Do you know that feeling of fighting the fence and forgetting the field? How often do we look past the blessings God has in front of us?
The Stone Rejected
There’s nothing quite like hearing that someone has been digging through trash and thought of you! St. Francis teaches us to find “God’s goodness in all things.” How can we apply this to not the people we encounter?...
Love of My Life
We are a few weeks into the new school year, and I always find this season rejuvenating. Last week, someone stopped me after Mass and asked, “What are young people like nowadays?” I answered with a story…
Honey or Vinegar?
Through a brief exchange with a teacher, I discovered that a student hesitated to approach me about discernment. How did this prompt me to reflect on how I am perceived and the importance of leading with honey, not just in words, but in presence
What’s Tomorrow
.For the first time in my life, I received a jury invitation! How did turning to St. Francis' Preparation of the Day help to guide my mindset and actions? How can the steps be applied to everyday life?
“Finally” Vows
On Wednesday, one of our young Oblates, Mr. Jonathan Dick, OSFS, professed his final vows. In preparation, we gathered for a Reconciliation service and a special examination of conscience inspired by St. Francis. Why is it important to examine our conscience?...
The Joy of Being an International Oblate
Having worked with the Oblates all t over India, in our German-speaking Province, and now in the U.S., I am comfortable being part of an international order. Since beginning my ministry in the U.S, I have been overwhelmed by the support of my brother Oblates and community...
Checking In
Live Jesus Ministries focuses on youth small group discipleship and utilizes check-in questions to help build comfort through sharing and listening to the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives. What check-in questions do we need to hear? ...
An Eggs-ample of Humility
Hard boiled eggs are a quick source of nutrition. However, making them can lead to unexpected experiences of humility. How can a kitchen mishap be a lesson in Salesian Spirituality?...
Whiteboard
Bells have always been part of the Christian tradition. After being silenced for Holy Week, they ring out to announce the Resurrection. When the bells ring, what do they call out to our hearts? What will you think the next time you hear them...
Better Now
Love of neighbor is on par with love of God and follows it immediately. When I entered the Oblates, my first superior, Fr. John Lehner, OSFS, was a great example of this. How can we learn from Fr. John's example of love, gentleness, patience, and meekness?...
Hardened Heart?
I often take my imperfections and make them my identity, and get spiritually trapped by shame. Does that sound familiar? As we journey through Lent, let's reflect on the difference between guilt and shame. and what St. Francis de Sales teaches...
Will you?
Looking for people to love what we love is natural, but it is also a recipe for great upset. How many times have you hoped someone would think, feel, or love as you do, only to be disappointed? Since we cannot expect people to always be like us, where can we turn in scripture to guide our hearts? ...
Gospel Children
Jesus often uses children to make a point. He not only says, “Let the little children come to me” but He also embraces them. Why is this a radical response by Jesus? What’s the big deal and how can we carry out this teaching?...

